Ngā kaumingomingotanga kainga Eating disorders
Causes of eating disorders
We do not know exactly what causes anyone's eating disorder. But there are 3 general groups of risk factors:
- sociocultural factors (things to do with society as a whole)
- whānau factors
- individual factors, which includes a genetic component.
Most eating disorders are more common in women. But men are also affected, and can find it harder to ask for and get help.
Treating eating disorders
If you think that you, or someone you know, may have an eating disorder, get professional help as soon as possible. Treatment is more successful when people with eating disorders get help early. This is especially so for tamariki (children) and rangatahi (young people).
Rarely, someone with an eating disorder can become so malnourished that they need emergency treatment. If someone you care about with an eating disorder has collapsed, is having seizures or is confused, call 111.
If someone is having severe medical problems from their eating disorder, they may need to be admitted to hospital.
Self care with an eating disorder
Admitting you have a problem and accepting help are the first steps. The earlier you ask for help, the easier it will be to get better.
There are many things you can do to help yourself recover from an eating disorder.
- Learn more about eating disorders to help you understand what is happening to you — you may like to look at an online self-help programme.
- Try to be kind to yourself — seek support to learn ways to deal with difficult emotions and thoughts.
- Make time for things you enjoy, and spend time with people who make you feel good.
- Talk to a friend or whānau member — support from people who care about you is important.
- Try not to concentrate on your eating habits.
- Try to improve your communication, and build up your emotional confidence and security.
- Join a support group — this can help talk about your problem, and get advice and support from people who know what you are going through.
If you are a binge eater
- Try not to let yourself get so hungry that the urge to binge is overwhelming.
- Keep a diary to become aware of your eating patterns and the feelings that trigger binges.
Getting help with an eating disorder
Many people with eating disorders feel embarrassed, ashamed or guilty. They have often tried to treat their disorder without success. This can make them believe that nothing will work and stop them getting help.
Eating disorders are treatable. But the longer someone has an eating disorder (particularly anorexia), the more difficult it is to change their thinking and behaviour. So, it is best to get treatment as early as possible. Specialist treatment such as cognitive behavioural therapy, is essential.
Talking to your healthcare provider is a good first step.
Specialist eating disorder services
Specialist eating disorder services provide treatment and support to people suffering from an eating disorder. You can find providers on the Healthpoint website.
Eating disorder services — Healthpoint (external link)
Counsellors and therapists
Talking therapies with a counsellor or psychologist help many people. Cognitive behaviour therapy is a type that can help with eating disorders.
Accessing mental health services — Mental Health Foundation (external link)
Supporting someone with an eating disorder
Eating disorders like anorexia or bulimia are serious medical conditions. They can be fatal if left untreated.
If you suspect a friend has an eating disorder and want to approach them about it, be caring and non-judgemental.
Many people with eating disorders say they are fine and just want everyone to leave them alone. In reality they may feel scared and isolated. They may also be unsure how to stop the eating disorder from controlling their life.
They can put a lot of effort into hiding the condition, so it can be difficult to diagnose. But the earlier it is diagnosed, the better the chance that they will recover.
Here are 5 tips for supporting someone with an eating disorder:
- read up on eating disorders and know your facts before you talk to someone about their eating disorder
- be kind and do not judge them — use language that is not critical or judgemental
- be honest about your concerns — it is an important talk to have
- encourage them to seek professional help
- keep supporting them even if they become defensive or angry — when they seek professional help, continue to support them through their journey to recovery.
Related websites
Eating Disorders Association of New Zealand external link
A New Zealand charity providing information, support and resources about eating disorders.
F.E.A.S.T. external link
An international organisation that aims to support parents and caregivers who have tamariki (children) with an eating disorder.
KidsHealth external link
Information about services for young people with eating disorders, and support for parents and whānau.
Centre for Clinical Interventions external link
An Australian website with self-treatment resources. This includes information, worksheets, and activities.
Clinical review
This content was written by HealthInfo clinical advisers. It has been adapted for Health Information and Services.